Thursday, February 24, 2011

It was for me

Not that there was much by the time the poor guy got home.

Seems that right after I skedaddled out of the market to beat him home, he got a call about a work disaster.  So he had to dash back to the office carrying all the shmooshy sh*t, which actually might not be a bad thing because apparently Office Crush Girly was there and saw it and obviously got that it was for his wife who he loves. 

By the time he got home, the lobster had been out of the fridge for a while so was maybe a little sketchy, so we had the chocolates and the wine which I really couldn't complain about.  Feeling the way I did in the couple of hours before he got home made me realize that (like some lovely commenters have been saying) I need to let go of this if this second chance is going to have a chance.

So I did.  I'm officially re-joining the ranks of the "Love Refugees" (even though my guy is as American as apple pie!)


Zola24 said...

Wow. That's great so pleased for you both. Yes, kick those suspicions well into touch. Move forward and don't look back. Am so excited for you. Will raise a glass to you when I wake up. To Your New Positive Happy Life in Sweden. Enjoy every minute.
lv & virtual hugs

Net said...

deep sigh! i think it's time to forgive and forget. life goes on :-)

Madeleine said...

Good for you!!!

BB13 said...

Ha, who said you should let go? Right, it was me. Man, I should start with couple counseling.
Maybe you both should being more open and honest about stuff like Office Crush Girl or when other people hit on you. Telling a funny story about another pick up line when coming home could ease the situation and each of you knows what happened without being secretive about it.
Just my thoughts.
Happy for you.

Deidre said...

Aw, I am so happy that the stuff was for you - although major bummer about the wasted lobster!

OhioGirl said...

Thanks everybody! BB13, I'm just gonna listen to you about everything from now on... ;-)