Tuesday, February 1, 2011


Okay.  So. 

Situation: Awesome Husband who his wife loves to death has been acting kind of weird since their move to a new country.  Not horrible or anything, just... weird.  He has been under insane pressure re new job etc which is totally understandable, but it's not just that.  He's always under pressure, and this is new.  Wife is worried.

Husband leaves his blackberry, which he barely ever puts down, even in the shower, at home.  Calls wife and asks her to bring it to office.

So far, no biggie.

Here's the thing: if wife is seriously concerned about his mental and emotional well-being and just needs a clue as to what is up so she can help him, does wife look through emails etc?  ONLY to see if she can help?

Advice super needed.


Anonymous said...

Oh my god sweetie step away from the blackberry! Seriously, I love you and no good can come of this!!!! Call me.
Aunt Michelle

Kristin said...


Stockholmgirl said...

If you have any respect for your husband I think you should respect his privacy. How would you like it if he read your emails and messages?

PetuniaP said...

I say do it. Yes, it's a terrible invasion of privacy but someties, a person needs someone else to step in and say "do yo need help? If your husband seems distracted and he isn't talking to you about what's on his mind...who is he talking to??

OhioGirl said...

Excuse me, I don't really know what you are trying to say, but my husband doesn't talk to anybody but me. Maybe in your relationships you need to invade the guy's privacy, but actually I don't.

Anonymous said...

Umm... isn't this exactly how you lost the last one? Nice to see your still playing the same games.