Thursday, February 3, 2011

Last night

I don't even really know where to start.  Okay.  For once in his life, DH got home last night in time to actually have dinner with me so for about the first time since we got here, I didn't eat on my own in front of a DVD. I was super super excited to make a lovely dinner and we would have a really special night just re-connecting, you know?  But, I forgot that I'm married to an asshole.  The dinner didn't turn out because none of the ingredients are the same here, and okay, I got a little upset - I was frustrated because I just wanted everything to be nice!  So we got in a huge fight about I don't even know what and I told him how Eric had been hitting on me (which I know isn't definitely true, I just wanted to get a rise out of him) and he said something really weird, like it would make it a lot easier for him.  What does that even mean?  His wife having an affair would make WHAT easier for him?  I don't even know, we were yelling, and that doesn't even make sense because Chase is the most jealous guy EVER.  When we were dating this waiter one night got a little flirty with me and Chase just about took his head off.  I don't condone violence or anything but it was pretty hot!  So bullshit dude if you think I'm gonna believe that you want something to happen with Eric and me!!



Which it isn't, because I think he has a girlfriend.  After our run this morning, I asked him if we could grab a coffee before we went home because I accidentally bought that stupid yogurt stuff instead of milk AGAIN and needed a coffee or I would die.  So we went into the coffee shop on Götgatan which I really like and I was ordering my coffee when I kind of sensed someone coming towards us.  One of those woman that seems really pretty from a distance but when you look closer she's maybe not that special.  She kissed Eric, just on the cheek but it had a kind of intimate quality, you know?  And they talked for a while - this whole language thing is BAD for my eavesdropping habit!!  So I don't know what they said, they could have been talking about soccer ("football") or onions or tube socks for all I know, but it had a... quality.  You know?  And interestingly, he didn't introduce me.  And because I was ordering at the time she probably didn't even realise that he was there with me.  Why wouldn't he say to his friend - oh that's my client? Because she would be jealous at him training a woman maybe?  I don't like to pry, so I just quietly got the coffee and waited for him outside.

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think your hubby is totally bonking someone behind your back. Fact.

OhioGirl said...

Excuse me???? And who the EFF do you think you are to talk shit about my husband that you don't even know??? I don't even know why you think you can say FACT when you are saying BULLSHIT!! How would you even know? Who the EFF are you?

Rosie said...

Hi OhioGirl,

I hate to say this but I agree with the first comment. As hurtful as it may be...Don't you think it a little odd that your once jealous husband is jealous no longer and is in fact encouraging you to have an affair with a hot Swedish guy?

I know we are complete strangers but I went through something similar. Ignorance is not bliss. Wake up. Smell the roses. Your husband is having an affair.

OhioGirl said...

Oh you hate to say this - you're going to hate reading this!!! What the eff do you think you are talking about when you don't know anything about my life or my business or my husband! You don't even know what he said he DIDN'T ENCOURAGE ME TO HAVE AN AFFAIR!!!! WHERE did you read that? I never said that! I'm sorry that your husband obviously slept with everything that stayed still long enough probably because you wouldn't - but MY HUSBAND is NOT LIKE THAT.

Jennifer said...

Umm, you ladies need to back the eff up. Obviously you have no clue what you are talking about. You can not decide someone is cheating based on one event. I think he was being a jackass, but that doesn't mean he is cheating. And I am sorry, why don't you both have the balls to use your names?

OhioGirl said...

Jennifer thank you so much I can't tell you what your support means to me! You rock! And you're so right! Haters gonna hate I guess........

Jennifer said...

Anytime, girl. That stuff does not fly with me. Some pathetic internet troll just trying to stir stuff up.

OhioGirl said...

You're my girl Jennifer! If you ever get attacked by trolls or haters, know that I will have your back right back!

Hayley said...

I'm probably going to get flamed for this, but I think Rosie was being pretty nice all considered.

Hint: if you don't want your marriage commented on, maybe don't post it on the internet?

And how do you know Rosie isn't her real name? You people don't even make sense!