tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6662715808033839695.post2714702751802951522..comments2023-07-03T15:37:37.821+02:00Comments on Tales of Sodermalm: For NowOhioGirlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07481123451290933355noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6662715808033839695.post-41268209905784350482011-02-22T14:22:05.958+01:002011-02-22T14:22:05.958+01:00I think I'm happy we're talking too. I th...I think I'm happy we're talking too. I think I kind of need to get over being mad before I know how I feel enough to make any forever decisions, you know? So you're kind of all right - I can't live like this forever, but have to for a little while until I know what's up. In the meantime at least there's some sun today so I'm smiling!OhioGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07481123451290933355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6662715808033839695.post-261971009422096282011-02-21T07:49:06.537+01:002011-02-21T07:49:06.537+01:00I agree with you and anonymous - if you don't ...I agree with you and anonymous - if you don't feel ready to discuss the Blog Girl thingie, don't do it yet. There's enough to get your head around at the moment. These things are not just black and white. They take time to come to terms with and process.<br /> I'm happy for you that he's back and that you're talking. :)Ulrikanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6662715808033839695.post-57806469862412922302011-02-21T04:07:07.500+01:002011-02-21T04:07:07.500+01:00Wow this is so just intense! I am so sorry you hav...Wow this is so just intense! I am so sorry you have to deal with all this as well as being an expat and being so far away from home.<br /><br />do what's best for you and at the pace you need it to be.Deidrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14993934232617420348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6662715808033839695.post-5761225044572791982011-02-21T03:55:00.002+01:002011-02-21T03:55:00.002+01:00I'm kind of agreeing with BB. I don't know...I'm kind of agreeing with BB. I don't know what the info is about blog girl, but the only way you can start again is if everything is out in the open.<br /><br />By the sound of your post, I get the impression you aren't buying his "story." I'm only going by the tone of your post, so I could be wrong, but I don't buy it. He would have told you about a girl flirting with him if it was nothing.<br /><br />Again, it's about honesty and trust. You and only you know what the right thing to do here is. Just don't stay with him because you don't want to be alone. You're better than that.dnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6662715808033839695.post-53943899493401230442011-02-21T00:14:33.892+01:002011-02-21T00:14:33.892+01:00But BB13, of course she can't just decide to f...But BB13, of course she can't just decide to forgive him that quick. It takes time, but she can decide to work on it with him. After a while she will have to make the decision to really forgive or not, but it not so simple that you can just say directly. I do agree that being direct and honest about everything is the only way to go.<br /><br />But seriously, "you can't live like that forever".., no of course not, but it is OK to let things take a little time, hardly any time at all has passed, relax.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6662715808033839695.post-85013862788229672472011-02-20T23:31:16.597+01:002011-02-20T23:31:16.597+01:00So ... your saying he's there because you don&...So ... your saying he's there because you don't want to be single. That's the way I understood it. But that can't be a solution. Either you really forgive him and let the "roommate" move out or you don't forget and the "roommate" will stay with you forever.<br />I would confront him with what else you know. I know, you will have to make a decision then but it would be a clear status. You could go on living then. Now you're living in the past, thinking about what he did to you. You can't live like that forever.<br />Just my 2 cents. Make the decision you can best live with.BB13noreply@blogger.com